You might be the last thing on her mind, before she goes to sleep. You might be the memory that plays in her mind, whenever that song comes on. But you are no longer the reason why she wakes up in the morning. She gets up for herself now.
You’re the girl he needs. The one who will keep him in line when he over steps his boundaries. The one who accepts him for what he is. The one that appreciates him, and knows that he could be gone in a second. The one who would love to spend time with him, even if for only five minutes. The one who trusts him. The one who doesn’t pick him up when he falls, but rather helps him learn for the next time. The one who will always be there, no matter what. The one who will love him unconditionally. Yeah, you’re the girl he needs, but you’re not the girl that he deserves. Look, we all have someone we miss very much, but trust me it’s not worth dwelling on something that’s only going to make you sadder. You deserve to be happy. Everyone deserves to be happy and if you’ve taken shit for too long, there is a point where you should give up, and go on. You’re not getting anything in return for it, so why should you keep that effort going if it’s not making you happy? Do what makes you happy, it’s your life you know? Do what you feel is right. But do what makes you happier in the long run. <3
If she doesn’t like you, she just doesn’t like you. And there’s a really good chance that there’s nothing you can do about it. It doesn’t mean that there is something wrong with you, it’s just not meant to be. A lot of the time, girls don’t have a real good reason for not liking guys. You could be funny, sweet, smart, and amazing in every way, but when she looks at you, if she doesn’t get those butterflies in her stomach, if she doesn’t look forward to your texts or to seeing you everyday, then she just doesn’t like you. There was nothing you did or didn’t do to cause this, it just is what it is and the only thing you can do is get over her. Because there’s good odds that if she doesn’t like you, she’s not going to like you, and I promise you there is a girl out there for you. There’s a girl that gets butterflies when you make her smile, a girl that is always smiling because of you. There’s a girl that instantly responds to your text messages, because she thrives on talking to you. I promise. You’ll find her. Chances are she’s right there.. you just got to get over this girl you think you see yourself with. It’s not your fault… she’s just doesn’t like you. Not everyone we meet will be the one we date.
Have you ever had a time in your life when you were most vulnerable and you didn’t want to want anyone; when you didn’t want to need anyone? You didn’t want to let anyone in, you set your guard up high and you only did it to save yourself. You were that fed up with the past and just needed time to mend your heart. You didn’t want to build a relationship with anyone only to avoid the risk of yourself from getting hurt again. Just waiting for someone to break down those walls out of their own will and actually prove to you that they’re worth the risk. Waiting for someone that’s willing to go above and beyond for you because you were tired of doing everything for someone who wouldn’t even do anything for you.
Then all of a sudden, when you least expect it, you meet that someone. It’s like, you were doing just fine on your own not having to worry about anyone else. Thinking you can do everything on your own; relying and depending on no one. Then as time passes, they slowly become a part of you, a part that you can’t let go of. Because you begin to realize that they’ve been there when you had no one else to turn to, they hear you out when no one listens, they understand you in a way no one else has. Then you think back and take a look at what they’ve done to you. It’s inevitable to the fact that you never thought that you’d love them they way you do. You never thought that they would mean this much to you, more than anyone else has.
He’s not perfect. You aren’t either, and the two of you will never be perfect. But if he can make you laugh at least once, causes you to think twice, and if he admits to being human and making mistakes, hold onto him and give him the most you can. He isn’t going to quote poetry, he’s not thinking about you every moment, but he will give you a part of him that he knows you could break. Don’t hurt him, don’t change him, and don’t expect more than he can give. Don’t analyze. Smile when he makes you happy, yell when he makes you mad, and miss him when he’s not there. Love hard when there is love to be had. Because perfect guys don’t exist, but there’s always one guy that is perfect for you.